What Exactly Are Sex Toys for Couples?
Every couple runs into a little “stale period” in their sex lives, but what if that didn’t have to be the case? What if you could have an arsenal of special playthings, right at your disposal? Well, the truth is that you can, and no matter what your preferences may be, there is something out there to really spice up your sex life - both in and out of the bedroom.
The good thing is that some sex toys can be used alone or with a partner, such as adding a little zing to your g spot, but the variety of choices are plentiful. The great news is that there is always something for everyone, regardless if this is your first time experimenting with sex toys, or if you are both pros with a whip and handcuffs.
Even a standard vibrator can be incorporated as a couple’s toy, as can an anal vibrator. The end result in using toys is to bring two partners closer together, and to get a little enjoyment while you’re at it. So, whether you’re having a night in with the latest sexy board game or trying out one of the newest warming lubricants, there are numerous ideas on how you can enjoy one another in new and surprising ways.
Sex Toys for Couples and How to Use Them
You may think it’s pretty simple to figure out how to utilize a sleek, seductive glass dildo or perhaps something a bit more realistic. But the bottom line is that you’ll want to be safe, comfortable and feeling good. Whenever you’re dealing with your extra-special private parts, you’ll always want to be sure that you also take extra-special care.
Use lube - Not only is it a good idea to always use a good water-based lubricant when using dildos of all sizes or any type of butt plug, but it can come in quite handy with just about anything. If your vagina is dry when using a vibrator, it won’t feel quite as good as it would otherwise. Plus, you can use lubes that will provide a tingling sensation or even create a warming effect. Lubricants are also very inexpensive, so you can experiment with all of the different colors, tastes and smells on the market. Buy a handful and fill up your nightstand drawer!
Keep it clean - Whenever you plan on putting any item into contact with your private areas, you’re going to want to make sure that you keep those toys extra clean. You can wash most products with soap and warm water - just be cautious with any vibrating parts. And since we’ve already discussed the importance and pleasurable benefits of using a lubricant, be sure to pay attention to the nooks and crevices where lube can build up. Also try to get into the habit of cleaning your toys whenever you are finished using them, so as not to hit the pause button when you’re in the mood.
Take it slow - And if you’re considering using large dildos or double-ended dildos, remember that it isn’t a race. Take your time in letting your bodies adjust to whatever play you have in mind, because you really don’t want to be out of commission for any amount of time. The tissues inside of both the anus and the vagina can tear easily, so just kick things down a notch until you know exactly how your new playthings will cause your body to react.
Experiment away - The fun thing when using toys designed for couples is that you can try out all different types of scenarios. Whether you like a little role playing or want to see why pegging is all the rage, your only limitations are your own imagination. So, don’t be afraid to get a little creative!
Choosing the Best Sex Toys for Couples
Now that you’re aware of some of the best ways to stay safe and keep your toys clean, the fun can begin! It’s officially time to go shopping! Are you ready?
Sex toys for married couples - Just because you’re a married couple, it doesn’t mean that you’re stuck with missionary sex for the rest of your lives. Married couples like to get a little kinky, too! Think about jazzing things up with a beginner’s bondage kit or a strap-on and harness. You can also try out a sex swing or the latest cock ring.
Sex toys for long-distance couples - And just because you may not be able to be in the same bed, it doesn’t mean that long-distance relationships have to go without. Sexting and using Video Chat (such as Facetime) or social media platforms can go a long way, especially if you both have a little playmate to help out. Ladies, splurge on one of the most powerful vibrators on the market. And men, when you can’t have the real thing, what about a male masturbator, shaped just like your favorite vagina or bum?
Fun sex toys for couples - Of course, sometimes you need to have a little flirty fun, which is why there is a variety of games to keep the love flowing. There is a number of card games, some with ticklers, blindfolds and other props.
Whether your partner is in bed next to you or a thousand miles away, you can still use an abundance of pleasurable toys to make sure that the night doesn’t end too soon. So, pull out your whip, roll the dice and see where the evening goes!
