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Jerkoff Instruction (JOI)

  • by My First Blush on September 12, 2019

Jerkoff instructions (JOI), sometimes spelled as jerk off instructions, are visual and verbal prompts regarding men's masturbation. As a sexual activity, the jerkoff instruction includes telling the man when to orgasm, if at all, as well as how he should masturbate. Commonly practiced by couples within the BDSM community, the jerkoff instructions are usually an orgasm denial' component. For vanilla couples, the act can also be a foreplay element.

The instructor, during the jerk off instruction, explains, sometimes even demonstrates how the man should masturbate. The process usually suggests where the man should touch himself, how fast the strokes should be, as well as how hard or soft he should jerk off. To show the right technique, the instructor can go as fas as using a vibrator or a dildo for demonstration.

Regarding the kinds of jerk off instruction, there are two. The first type is a positive one, which is known as jerkoff encouragement. During this jerkoff instruction, the instructor positively reinforces the man helping him to orgasm. The second type is a negative jerkoff instruction, known as jerk off humiliation.

Opposite than the jerkoff encouragement, the jerkoff humiliation has a purpose of embarrassing the man and making him feel ashamed and dirty. Because of these negative feelings, the male has less desire to masturbate, therefore finds it much harder to orgasm.

The jerk off instructions, generally, are a good way to experiment with BDSM. Since the technique is not focused on pain but on pleasure, it gives the participants the opportunity to practice a low-risk yer effective power exchange.

For those who enjoy or think they would enjoy jerkoff instructions, there are plenty of online sources, including live video chats, and videos on various pornographic websites.