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How to Clean, Care, & Use Your Fleshlight


Attention, men! You don’t have to have a partner to enjoy the feelings of sensual pleasure! You can get a realistic toy that you can penetrate and enjoy delicious sensations with.

What is a Fleshlight?

A Fleshlight is a realistic stroker toy for men. It’s soft and textured on the inside and looks like a realistic vagina or booty. Fleshlights are also known for their discreet cases—some are even disguised to look like a can. There are also celebrity lookalikes! The Fleshlight is known for being one of the premium male strokers, and with the right effort, you can achieve a satisfying orgasm.

How to Use a Fleshlight

It’s not recommended to just grab it and go. You can do a few things in advance that will help make your time that much more enjoyable and comfortable.

Every Fleshlight can be separated into the gel insert and the case. Take the gel insert out of the case and run in under hot tap water for a few minutes. Your Fleshlight will feel warm to the touch, which is oh-so-pleasurable. Shake away the water from the gel and put the gel insert back in its case.

Now things can start to get a little more exciting. You’ll need plenty of lube in order to go for a more comfortable ride, and that can actually start to help you get in the mood. Use water-based lube along your shaft, and use your fingers to add lube around the outside of the opening and all along the inside.

From there, all you have to do is penetrate and let the good times roll! There are many different positions you can try so you can enjoy a variety of sensations.

  • Get on your back and start by teasing your head at the entrance. Then slowly penetrate your whole shaft.
  • Recreate the missionary position by placing the Fleshlight underneath a pillow. Use your arms for support and thrust into the Fleshlight.
  • If you get the right Fleshlight accessory, you can even go hands-free. If you’re really creative, you can secure your Fleshlight in other ways so that you try new positions.
  • Another creative way to play is to create suction. The Fleshlight breaks down into four main parts: the gel insert, the case body, and two caps that go on either end. If you leave the cap on the back end on, it will create more suction and will give you a whole new set of spine-tingling thrills.

Fleshlight Safety

Fleshlights are by no means dangerous, but there are some things you can do to stay healthy. For personal comfort, lube is a must. You’ll need to clean your toy after every use, and you should never share your Fleshlight with another person.

How to Clean a Fleshlight

One of challenges of owning a Fleshlight is the actual cleaning. Every time you use your Fleshlight (or any toy, for that matter), you need to clean it inside and out.

The first step to cleaning is to remove the gel insert from the case. Using warm water, flush out the canal and the outside to get rid of any remaining lube, or fluids. Fleshlights are made from a super silky and smooth material, but it’s not made for soap. Use your fingers to get in and move the water through the textured area.

After you rinse with water, we do recommend using some type of cleaner, but it should be something made specifically for sex toys—there are many different toy cleaners on the market.

You should then either towel dry or air dry your toy. Make sure you give it time to dry completely before you store it with the caps on. The Fleshlight may actually develop a slightly sticky feeling after cleaning, but it’s easy to restore it to its original smooth texture. Use a Fleshlight-approved powder will make it like new. However, you should not use talcum powder.

Fleshlight Product Guide

If you’re ready to try something new and explore a whole new way to play, you’ll want to check out some of our favorites.

Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit

Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit Fleshlight

We love this toy because it pulls double duty. It’s not only a premium stroker for personal pleasure, but it is also designed in such a way that it will make you last longer.  It feels fantastic and gets you as close to the real thing without actually being there. That means you can practice to your heart’s content and work on lasting longer and longer—your partner will thank you.

Pink Lady has realistic lips and an overall realistic feel. The canal is textured to produce even more powerful sensations. It’s waterproof so you can take it with you in the shower for some watery fun. The insert will feel even better when you warm it up beforehand. Pink Lady can accommodate most men and will provide you with hours of pleasurable training!

Fleshlight Sex in a Can Lady Lager

Fleshlight Sex in a Can Lady Lager

If you want to hide your naughtier side from the world but still want to keep things accessible, you may want to consider the Sex in a Can Lady Lager. Meant to mimic a realistic vagina that’s luxurious and tempting, it feels amazing every time. All you have to do is lube up and go for it.

The case looks like an innocuous can of beer and can hide in plain sight so long as the cap is on. What’s best about this toy is that there are multiple sensuous chambers in the canal that are devilishly textured to coax out an orgasm with a little something extra. Gently push your shaft through the perfect lips, relishing the feeling of the tight canal, and see how excited you can really get!

Fleshlight Go Torque Male Masturbator

Fleshlight Go Torque Male Masturbator

Wow. There’s so much to love about this Fleshlight—where to begin? For one, it’s meant for traveling and movement on the go. It’s lightweight and smaller than the average Fleshlight. The Go Torque is also crystal clear, which lets you watch all of the action! The Go Torque is unlike any other Fleshlight out there, and its size and case make it the ultimate choice in discretion.

With an anal-like opening, the Go Torque is the ultimate in male satisfaction, and the canal is full of textured surprises that will tantalize you and rock you to your core. Best of all, it’s completely waterproof, so not only can you travel with it, but you can play with it in or out of the shower or bath. It’s also incredibly easy to care for, which makes this the ultimate masturbation toy!

Fleshlight Sex in a Can Suckit Draft

Fleshlight Sex in a Can Suckit Draft

This is a little bit of a different take on the Fleshlight. It has a case that looks just like a can of beer so you can hide your personal belongings in plain sight. What differentiates this Fleshlight from others is that the orifice isn’t the vagina or anus, but rather a realistic mouth. You’ll be able to go deeper than ever without fear of making your partner uncomfortable. The lips feel smooth and lifelike, and you’ll be quaking in the knees thanks to the intense ridges in the canal.

For the ultimate in discretion with all the thrills of having a mouth at the ready, the Suckit Draft may be just what your body desires. Get as close as you can to the real thing without actually being there—we’re sure you’ll love it!

Fleshlight Pure Stealth Male Masturbator

Fleshlight Pure Stealth Male Masturbator

This male masturbator is perfect for the man who doesn’t need much penetration to get stimulated. Pure Stealth features a backdoor orifice that looks plain and simple on the outside but has complex ridges and textures throughout the canal. You’ll get such a thrill from the unpredictable canal that you’ll be reduced to a quivering man in practically no time. The deeper you go, the narrower it gets, giving you delicious sensations that will rock you to your core.

It’s even temperature sensitive, so the more you go for it, the warmer it gets. Better still, the bottom cap is adjustable so that you can play with the amount of suction you get—the tighter you twist, the more suction you’ll feel. As much as you’ll enjoy this particular toy, just know that it will feel so good you may not be able to last very long!

Fleshlight Pink Butt Speed Bump

Fleshlight Pink Butt Speed Bump

This is a perfect option for people who love anal sex and want more, more, more! It’s a great option for tapping that booty because it’s ultra-textured on the inside, eliciting oh-so-good feelings as you slide in and out of the toy. The insert is made from Fleshlight’s own realistic Superskin that feels almost as good as the real thing. Give it a gentle squeeze while you’re using it and feel even stronger sensations and more intense textures. The inside of the canal is lined with dozens of small “speed bumps” that will give you thrilling feelings throughout. We think that you’ll love this model so much that you’ll start to get excited just thinking about it! All that’s left is for you to grab your lube and get going!

Tera Patrick Fleshlight Girls Lotus

Tera Patrick Fleshlight Girls Lotus

You probably never conceived of a moment where you might be able to get intimate with a porn star. Thanks to modern technology, you can get a realistic experience with adult films star Tera Patrick. This Fleshlight is modeled to look just like her, and when you thrust inside, you’ll get chamber after chamber of titillating sensations. The Fleshlight Girls series doesn’t just feature Tera Patrick, however. There is a whole line of Fleshlights that are modeled after celebrities. Find your favorite and go for a ride! Best of all, this Fleshlight is totally waterproof so you can take it with you on watery adventures. The biggest challenge is going to be how long you can simply hold on—she feels so good that you may have problems lasting a long time.

Jenna Haze Fleshlight Girls Forbidden Butt

Jenna Haze Fleshlight Girls Forbidden Butt

There’s something so deliciously naughty and taboo about the butt, and the Fleshlight in the Girls series is all about it. Modeled to match adult porn star Jenna Haze’s delectable booty, you can get the sensation of being with a celebrity while delving into the forbidden. If you’re the kind of man who simply can’t get enough of anal penetration, then you’ll have a hard time keeping your hands off this toy. It’s exquisitely textured in the canal, and you can control the squeezing sensation as you stroke. Simply lube up, penetrate, and thrust and tease yourself until you can’t stand it anymore! Thanks in part to the realistic skin textures, this is as close as you can get to the real thing without actually having another person around.

Alien Fleshlight Ice

Alien Fleshlight Ice

Ready for something out of this world? Get your hands on something absolutely unique—you’ve never had a sexual experience quite like this, we promise. If you’ve even entertained the thought of what it would be like to be with an alien, imagine no more and try it out for real! The alien Fleshlight is a uniquely designed pussy that has a wild canal that will make you feel like you’ve launched into space. Feel the ridges and swirls around your cock—the toy combines the textures of several of their models. You’ll be so far gone that you’ll start craving the alien when you’re not even using it!

Fleshlight GO Pink Lady Surge

Fleshlight GO Pink Lady Surge Set

Take this on the go with you—it’s more compact and portable than the original Fleshlight. But besides that, the Surge is designed to mimic oral pleasure—simply thrust in and enjoy the thrilling ribbing and intense textures of the canal. It, like other Fleshlights, allows you to squeeze and enjoy even more intense feelings—the result is spine tingling and toe curling! Make the pleasure feel even more realistic when you tighten the end cap and increase the natural suction. It’s going to be hard to hold on for long! Take it with you wherever you go, including in the shower! You’ll love the convenience and sensuality of it all!