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How to Choose the Most Realistic Dildo


It’s an ongoing subject of discussion and controversy as to whether to choose a “realistic” or another type of dildo. In the world of sex toys and dildo lovers, there are some who prefer a realistic dildo and seemingly a whole army on the other side of the debate who prefer that their sex toys aren’t ‘anatomically correct.’

With that in mind, we’re prepared to offer you some guidance if you’re on the side of realistic dildos. These rough and ready slabs of lust can provide unrelenting pleasure and never ask for a break as you reach heights of unheard of orgasmic pleasure.

They come in as many shapes and sizes as do actual penises, and we offer them in a wide range of designs, materials, and uses. You can choose from the strap-on variety, double-ended dildos, or dildos that vibrate or undulate.

Realistic Dildos are an ideal choice for strap-on sex as they look very like the real thing as they pound their way into your most welcoming openings. They look so much like the real thing that you’ll be astonished as to how much visual stimulation they provide. If your chosen dildo has a sufficiently wide base, you'll discover that there are a huge range of compatible dildo harnesses at your disposal.

These strap-on harnesses feature appliances to make sure your dildo fits securely in place and won’t fail under the vigorous thrusting your partner will demand.

The Up Side

  • They look and feel so very much like a real penis and that means an outstanding, accurate experience
  • Say your partner isn’t rough and ready when you are; realistic dildos can serve as a tireless substitute
  • They’re the number one choice for people or couples intent on living out their naughty interracial fantasies or exploding with a cock shaped exactly like a famous partner or porn star’s
  • They can allow for double penetration without the inconvenience and discomfort which might come with inviting a third party to the event

The Down Side

  • They aren’t crafted and shaped to provide optimal comfort or sensation
  • They might prove unsuited to anal experimentation
  • If they’re huge, it’s possible that your partner might object and feel a touch jealous or lacking in comparison

What they all have in common is the fact that the lifelike type of dildo is aimed at creating realistic, penis-like features, and the designs include those with a realistic head, raised veins, and sometimes a set of balls to complete the overall effect.

The competition? The enormously popular ‘non-anatomical sex toys’ that take up a large share of the market. So where do realistic dildos fit in, in the overall range of popular toys? We’ll do our best to offer you the compelling arguments for and against ‘the real deal.’

Benefits of Realistic Dildos

At the core of the pro realistic dildos argument lies the fact that they provide an incredibly lifelike stimulation of a man’s erection by offering a like firmness, bulging veins, a head and glans or similar firmness. In the main, they very accurately simulate the effect and sensations provided by penetration by a man’s penis, and they’re highly sought after when it comes to creating intimate pleasure.

Realistic dildos are also often equipped with realistic testicles, a thrilling and complimentary addition which can provide external stimulation of the clitoris and perineum during play. These balls are textures and detailed to provide yet another highly evocative touch.

If you’re looking for something enormous, thick, racy and satisfying in the extreme, the 10.5-Inch Bam Black Dildo is molded directly from a porn star’s powerful shaft, and with its whopping 8-inch girth, its more meat than most can get their hands around. Made from a premium PVC, the BAM is firm enough to match a natural hard cock, but flexible enough to position comfortably while its big head massages your g-spot or prostate with a thrilling, veiny texture along the full length of the shaft.

It also fulfills the fantasy element of feeling porn star Bam Black’s massive manhood thrusting deep within and the sensation of his bulging stands up to rough play. Use a

water-based lube to allow this monster to provide explosive thrills.

What Do They Feel Like in Use?

There’s a very good reason a man’s erection is firm enough to allow for satisfying penetration and yet still flexible – that combination of attributes allows for insertion and thrusting and also provides comfort for vigorous use, and the majority of realistic dildos are designed to be constantly erect – and that makes them a ready partner when it’s time to get busy. Plenty of a good, water-based sex lube means they’re hard to provide explosive pleasure in a slippery fashion.

Selecting the Right Sized Realistic Dildo – Is Bigger Always Better?

Just as it is in the real world, realistic dildos come in many, many shapes, sizes, colors and textures. In the same way that no single penis is identical in the real world, you can find variety beyond imaging when it comes to your choice of ride. It’s a fantastic array indeed and you can choose from girth and length specifications made to suit the exact details of your sexy requirements. If you need something well out of the ordinary, you can choose realistic dildos well over a foot long or you can opt for one much smaller down to the under half a foot long.

You can find hyper-realistic dildos in our collection which range from the exceptionally thick to those with double ends or startling length, and each can offer a distinctly different set of pleasures. If you want something with a pair of heads, one on each end, you can experience the wild thrill of double penetration from 10+ inches of hard meat. You can also choose a much smaller and more standard offering to meet any of your desires.

Lose the Vanilla

Even the subtlest difference in size, texture, or shape can make an enormous difference in the overall sensations you’ll experience. Some realistic dildos are hybrids of a real penis and a fantasy one.  If they’re too realistic for your tastes – that flesh colored dildo just goes a few steps too far in its resemblance to the real thing- you can opt for vibrant colors or slightly unusual shapes that don’t feature lifelike skin color or standard size in individual components like head and balls.

Attached for Leverage

Imagine what it would like to build up delicious leverage by placing a realistic erection in nearly any location, position or angle without being constrained by the placement of a leg, hand or other hindrance. Realistic dildos equipped with suction cups can be attached to nearly any surface and allow for some stunning variations in sexual position. Stuck to nearly any flat surface in your bathroom or bedroom, a realistic dildo allows you to achieve a variety of angles and locations without being force to your hands. The attachment feature means your fingers are free to roam as that thick shaft pounds in an out of your very soul.

Realistic dildos are obvious in design and simple to use - available in plenty of variants – they make for a superb choice for the sex toy beginner. Whether you're looking for something rock-hard, flexible or downright floppy, there’s a realistic dildo to send you to the moon with shuddering spasms of pleasure. Often made of a flexible - but firm - material like skin-safe rubber or silicone, realistic dildos are made with one goal in mind; delivering maximum pleasure while bringing a remarkable, lifelike experience.

Our Top Picks:

The Pearlshine Jelly Rubber Vibrating Clit Pleaser Dildo

This is one realistic dildo that the ladies won’t want to miss. It multiple vibration speeds spread over 8 inches of lusty-worthy craftsmanship. You’ll never have another dull night with this realistic dildo that does double duty as a clitoral vibrator. Men can also get in on the action and enjoy the vibrating sensations that are enough to push anyone over the edge.


The 10 Function Realistic Waterproof 8-Inch Dildo Vibrator is made with completely waterproof material. That makes this vibrating dildo is the best toy to explore all your watery fantasies. Simply switch on the vibe and feel the pleasure as the ribbed and ridged shaft massages all your most sensitive and erogenous zones. It features 10 different vibration modes for lip-biting ecstasy, contains no phthalates or latex and is intimately textured with veins and a ridged head.


The Real Feel Deluxe No. 7 Realistic Vibrating 10.5 Inch Suction Dildo is anatomically designed to perfectly mimic a man's penis – and a very impressive penis it is. This super-real vibrating dildo will have you moaning with pleasure almost instantly. Switch between multiple different vibration modes for absolute ecstasy and simply apply a generous amount of lube to pain-free, slippery enjoyment. It’s 9 inches of insertable length means you'll be filled and stretched to your limits - just the way you want it.


The Curved 6.5 Inch Realistic Penis Vibrating Dildo will have you moaning with pleasure the instant you try it. A super soft, but sturdy dildo, it vibrates with multiple speeds so you can enjoy awe-inspiring sensations. Made from a patented jelly material, this dildo is ergonomically designed to massage and caress your G-spot to waves of pleasure.  Featuring more than 6" of girthy length, it’s capable of amazing penetration with its multiple vibration speeds and super soft Jelly-like material construction.


The Pearl Shine 9" Vibe is sheathed in a thick web of veins designed to mimic and accentuate the best features of a man. A robust head and gentle curve will have you writhing in pleasure and coming back for more. Multiple vibration speeds provide perfect orgasmic potential. And in the bargain, it’s 100% waterproof for hours of bathtub fun.



Caring for Your Toys

You’re sure to spend some serious change on dildos once you discover the joy they provide. You’ll want to protect your purchases and if you want them to last, you’ll need to take care of them. Some simple care and maintenance go a long way toward protecting your investment in pleasure. The number one rule for caring for your toys is to clean them, thoroughly, before and after you reach the big O, each and every time.  

You should use an antibacterial cleaner designed specifically for toys, like the ones found here. Since we’re talking intimate, sexual toys, cleanliness is of crucial importance. It also pays to remove the any batteries before doing your cleaning and then air dry your toys or dry them with a lint free cloth.

Storing Your Toys

Proper storage will help you enjoy your toys for longer and will keep them in tip-top shape.  

You should keep in mind the fact that the different materials your toys are made of might react to each other if they’re kept in prolonged contact with each other. That could result in deformities, melting or breaking, and that problem would interrupt your pleasure. For this reason, store your dildos and other toys in individual storage bags.

It also makes sense to avoid storing battery powered pleasure devices and dildos without their batteries in place. If you leave the batteries inside, the tools in your pleasure kit might suffer from corrosion, and even as your toys aren’t in use, batteries can lose their charge little by little.

If you treat your toys well you can get years of pleasure form them, and whether your toy of choice is a vibe, dildo, masturbator sleeve or cock ring, it makes sense to protect your erotic tools. Dedicated storage also helps you keep your toys free of unwanted bacteria from contaminating your favorite stimulators.  

The Sugar Sak Black Large Storage Bag keeps your toys safe, stops the growth of bacteria, yeast, mildew and viruses and provides lint-free construction. Black on the outside, it sports a fun, leopard-print design on the inside and the inner lining has been coated with Bioshield 75, an EPA approved and patented coating which inhibits the growth of bacteria.

Once your playtime comes to an end, clean your toys thoroughly, let them dry and then slip them into this bacteria-preventing bag. The Sugar Sak, at 7 inches long by 13 wide, is more than up to the task of storing delightful toys up to 11 inches long.

How to Get the Most from Your Realistic Dildo

To get the greatest pleasure from your realistic dildo, make sure you’re comfortable, relaxed, and feeling frisky, whether you’re playing with a partner or enjoying some alone time.

Only use your toys for their intended purpose – and their intended locations on the body. That means using vaginal toys as such and anal toys separately and clean them before transferring to other areas.

Be aware that silicone or oil-based lubes can cause damage to certain types of vibrator materials like silicone, so consider that factor with care.

Playing with a realistic dildo is an experience that can be even better than the real thing. Enjoy every inch of your life-like pleasure tool and don’t blame us if you never want to leave the bedroom.